Awareness

Signs that you are developing a new awareness about your relationships and how to take control of your own life.

Some have become time and energy draining, and you resolve to do something about them. You are more sensitive to relationships in which you feel you are being taken advantage of. 

This doesn’t mean that you would dump a friend in need, but that you have begun to notice your relationship 'climates'. In the same way that a long term weather pattern creates a climate in a particular region, if the climate of any of your relationships has proven - over time- that you typically feel put upon and used, then those are the ones that you now consider releasing. 

You have become more aware of the need to be your authentic self, and are aware of the need to release yourself from relationships that do not help you in your life journey.

 You are more concerned about what you’re doing with your life than what your EX is doing with theirs. You no longer obsess about your ex or the fact that they seem so happy because you’ve come to understand that your ex is going to repeat the same cycle of abuse with anyone they are with at any given time.

 You no longer focus on problems but solutions. You realize that you have the power to conquer and change your circumstances, rather than remain defenseless against whatever stunts your ex might be playing.